Sometimes the leash we feel in a relationship isn’t coming from our partner…
It’s coming from the ego inside of us, tugging and pulling like it owns the walk.
Episode 54 digs into the battle everyone faces — not against each other, but against our own inner noise:
🔥 EGO = Edging God Out
🔥 Why the need to be right destroys intimacy
🔥 How control creeps into love without being noticed
🔥 Why approval-seeking becomes addiction
🔥 How comparison kills joy and creates quiet resentment
🔥 How couples can reclaim the mic from the ego and return to the heart
Jeff and KAT dive deep into:
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The ego’s disguises — righteousness, control, performance, validation.
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Why couples fall into “don’t you know what I need?” arguments.
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How to break the cycle of emotional tug-of-war.
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Why awareness is the ego’s kryptonite.
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How gratitude softens the sharp edges of pride.
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Why love only breathes when ego finally drops the leash.
KAT delivers another incredible original poem — a lyrical reminder that:
“Hearts weren’t made for tug-of-war.
They’re wild, alive, and meant for so much more.”
This episode is an emotional tune-up for anyone who wants more peace, less friction, and deeper connection in love.
If you’ve ever wondered why small arguments become big battles, this episode is the mirror you need.